Here is a thought. I think that the Goldilocks analogy misses one point. To study the amazing set of circumstances allowing life on earth to appear and evolve is really interesting.
The real deal though is that we happen to exist in a corner of the universe amongst trillions of galaxies where those circumstances exist. There may be more or we may be alone in the universe. It's the fact that we happen to be in those improbable circumstances that gave life a chance.
We are like an earthworm saying, isn't it incredible that this pile of horse s***t was just there so I may bury my self into it and meet another worm and procreate. If that horse had not shat at that exact moment...
I'm not sure if that analogy works but it's the reverse logic that I question.